I know, I know that I am really late with the back from vacation post but I haven't been up for the posting. Let's just say that I didn't finish that bottle of no 19 like I was hoping to. I spent a whole lot of time near my sister's pool and it was a little pointless to be wearing perfume with how much time I spent around the pool. So I think that I should have stuck with the Infusion d'iris travel spray in terms of perfume. Hell, I didn't even need to bring mascara or lipstick. I think that it was my mother's vanity that got to me since she wanted me to take some make up. With 90 degree and up heat and a pool, it was mostly dumb idea to have any kind of makeup or perfume but I wasn't about to not pack something in terms of perfume.
Since I have been back, there has been a candle incident. I have been working on using or giving away some of my candles. I am not sure what triggered a family member but anywhere from a third to a half of my candle collection was destroyed. It wasn't the loss of those candles or the mess that was created or the nasty cut on my thumb that bothered me the most. What bothered me the most was that the family member just up and decided to just get mad over something that couldn't be controlled and willfully decided to go after my candles. When things calmed down somewhat, I had said that I didn't care that she had a mental illness and she was angry but to just go and destroy someone's belongings was uncalled for. Someone or the dogs could have been seriously physically hurt. And she did take away a whole lot of enjoyment from something I like. Was I mad about the money that I spent on candles that were broken in a fit of someone else's rage? Yes, I was angry. Angry because I could have enjoyed those candles and some of them were limited editions. So I did hide about 95% of what was left and while I was at it, I hid 90% of my perfume collection and almost all of my Galileo thermometer collection. So if there is another incident, the destruction will be much less severe. At this point, I want to be able to enjoy the things that I have without the threat of them getting broken.
So while I was dealing with the candle mess and hiding things where she can't get to them, I was sorting through my papers and all of that. Shredding things and all of that jazz. In ways, I am a very private person and I am not a fan of being the object of gossip. So the less ammunition I give people I don't become that subject. So privacy is very important and there is no reason why anyone needs to go through any kind of important papers and that is one thing that have always bothered me. I mean, if you don't want me to go through your xtuff, you don't need to go through mine.





